My good gentlemen,you are the cause of all the pain you are going through.This may sound weird or rather strange to you but you have to swallow the bitter pill of truth.
It has been discovered that,most men facing domestic violencen in their relationship is a result of them(men),forcing their wives to do so in a way.
Some men with strength and and ability to do all and sundry,wake up in the morning and remain idle the whole day.They wake up,take breakfast prepared by wives and proceed to drinking dens,some go to play cards with other idlers all day long while the woman struggles to make ends meet.
Later in the evening,the fellow drags himself back to the house without even a single coin in his hand and demands a plate on the table.Now,can you imagine,a man supposed to be the provider,demanding food from the wife,who's been struggling seling tomatoes and other small products yet he himself has nothing to offer.There is a swahili saying which goes like this,'mkono mtupu haulambwi'so how can you expect to be given food yet you have brought nothing!This is what provokes women.
Now instead of this wife pampering her husband with food he hasn't worked for,she gets worked up and picks a 'mwiko' and feeds him with it.It will be too unfortunate for the husband because he will definately add into the list of battered men.
On the other side,some ladies are known to take advantage of their high financial status,to harass their men.In other words,if a wife earns more than her husband,then that's a reason for her to intimidate her husband.Now,to some extent,this is men's fault.You need to pull up your socks and work hard so that your earnings rise above your wife's.Again men who have failed in their responsibility as providers,should up their game,otherwise wives will continue unleashing their wrath on you.
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